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8Chit&အိမ္႔ခ်စ္ AhMoon&အမြန္း AhNaing&အႏိုင္ AhNge&အငဲ Akuk Alex&အဲလက္စ္ AnnHellar&အန္ဟဲလာ Ar-T AungHtet&ေအာင္ထက္ AungLa&ေအာင္လ AungNaing&ေအာင္ႏိုင္ AungThu&ေအာင္သူ AungYin&ေအာင္ရင္ AuraLi&အာ္ရာလီ AyeChanMay&ေအးခ်မ္းေမ AyeTinChoShwe&ေအသင္ခ်ိဳေဆြ AyeWuttYiThaung&ေအးဝတ္ရည္ေသာင္း BaDin&ဗဒင္ Blueberry BobbySoxer BoBo&ဘိုဘို BoBoHan&ဘိုဘိုဟန္ BoPhyu&ဘိုျဖဴ Breaky&ဘရိတ္ကီ BunnyPhyoe&ဘန္နီၿဖိဳး ChanChan&ခ်မ္းခ်မ္း ChanChann&ခ်မ္ခ်မ္း ChawSuKhin&ေခ်ာစုခင္ ChinSong&ခ်င္းသီခ်င္း ChitKaung&ခ်စ္ေကာင္း ChitThuWai&ခ်စ္သုေဝ ChoLayLung&ခ်ိဳေလးလုန္ ChoPyone&ခ်ိဳၿပံဳး ChristmasSong&ခရစၥမတ္သီခ်င္း CityFm Dawn&ဒြန္း DiraMore&ဓီရာမိုရ္ DoeLone&ဒိုးလံုး Dway&ေဒြး EainEain&အိန္အိန္း G.Latt&ဂ်ီလတ္ GaeGae&ေဂေဂး GirlLay&ဂဲ(လ္)ေလး Graham&ဂေရဟမ္ Group&အဖြဲ႔လိုက္ GuRawng&ကူးေရာင္ GyoGyar&ႀကိဳးၾကာ HanTun&ဟန္ထြန္း HaymarNayWin&ေဟမာေနဝင္း He`Lay&ဟဲေလး HlonMoe&လႊမ္းမိုး HlwanPaing&လႊမ္းပိုင္ HtamHkay&ထ်န္ေခး HTDTunYin&ဟသာၤတထြန္းရင္ HtetAung&ထက္ေအာင္ HtetHtetMyintAung&ထက္ထက္ျမင္႔ေအာင္ HtetSaung&ထက္ေလွ်ာင္း HtooEainThin&ထူးအိမ္သင္ HtooHtooSet&ထူးထူးဆက္ HtooL.Lin&ထူးအယ္လင္း HtunHtun&ထြဏ္းထြဏ္း HtunYati&ထြန္းရတီ IreneZinMarMyint&အိုင္ရင္းဇင္မာျမင္႔ J.LingMawng&ေဂလိန္းေမာင္း J.MgMg&ေဂ်ေမာင္ေမာင္ JarSan&ဂ်ာဆန္ JetSanHtun&ဂ်က္ဆန္ထြန္း JMe&ေဂ်းမီ KabarPhone&ကမၻာဖုန္း KaiZar&ကိုင္ဇာ KapyaBoiHmu&ကဗ်ာဘြဲ႔မွဴး KaungKaung&ေကာင္းေကာင္း KhaingHtoo&ခိုင္ထူး KhinBone&ခင္ဘုဏ္း khinMgHtoo&ခင္ေမာင္ထူး KhinMgToe&ခင္ေမာင္တိုး KhinSuSuNaing&ခင္စုစုႏိုင္ KhupPi&ခုပ္ပီး KKT&ေကေကတီ KoKoGyi&ကိုကိုႀကီး KoNi&ေကာ္နီ KyingLianMoong L.KhunYe&L.ခြန္းရီ L.LwinWar&L.လြန္းဝါ L.SengZi&L.ဆိုင္းဇီ LaShioTheinAung&လားရႈိးသိန္းေအာင္ LaWi&လဝီ LayLayWar&ေလးေလး၀ါ LayPhyu&ေလးျဖဴ LDKyaw&L.ဒီေက်ာ္ LiLiMyint&လီလီျမင္႔ LinNit&လင္းနစ္ LynnLynn&လင္းလင္း Madi&မဒီ MaNaw&မေနာ Marritza&မာရဇၨ MayKhaLar&ေမခလာ MaySweet&ေမဆြိ MayThu&ေမသူ MgThitMin&ေမာင္သစ္မင္း MiMiKhe&မီးမီးခဲ MiMiWinPhay&မီမီဝင္းေဖ MinAung&မင္းေအာင္ Misandi&မိဆႏၵီ MMGospelSong&ခရစ္ယာန္ဓမၼေတး MMLoveSong&ျမန္မာသီခ်င္း MoMo&မို႔မို႔ MoonAung&မြန္းေအာင္ Music&ဂီတ Myanmar-Kid-Songs MyayPeYo&ေျမပဲယို MyoGyi&မ်ိဳးႀကီး MyoMyo&မ်ိဳးမ်ိဳး NangKhinZayYar&နန္းခင္ေဇယ်ာ Naung&ေနာင္ NawLiZar&ေနာ္လီဇာ NawNaw&ေနာေနာ္ NgeNgeLay&ငဲ႔ငယ္ေလး NiNiKhinZaw&နီနီခင္ေဇာ္ NiNiWinShwe&နီနီဝင္းေရႊ NO&ႏိုး NweYinWin&ႏြဲ႔ယဥ္ဝင္ NyanLinAung&ဥာဏ္လင္းေအာင္ NyiMinKhine&ညီမင္းခိုင္ NyiZaw&ညီေဇာ္ PannEiPhyu&ပန္းအိျဖဴ PanYaungChel&ပန္းေရာင္ျခယ္ Pb.ThanNaing&သန္းႏိုင္ PhawKa&ေဖာ္ကာ PhoeKar&ဖိုးကာ PhuPhuThit&ဖူးဖူးသစ္ PhyoGyi&ၿဖိဳးႀကီး PhyoKyawHtake&ၿဖိဳးေက်ာ္ထိုက္ PhyuPhyuKyawThein&ျဖဴျဖဴေက်ာ္သိန္း PhyuThi&ျဖဴသီ PoEiSan&ပိုးအိစံ PoPo&ပိုပို PuSue&ပူစူး R.ZarNi&R.ဇာနည္ RainMoe&ရိန္မိုး RebeccaWin&ေရဗကၠာ၀င္း Ringo&ရင္ဂို SaiHteeSaing&စိုင္းထီးဆိုင္ SaiLay&စိုင္းေလး SaiSaiKhanHlaing&စိုင္းစိုင္းခမ္းလႈိင္ SaiSaiMaw&စိုင္းဆိုင္ေမာ၀္ SaiSan&ဆိုင္စံ SalaiJonhTinZam SalaiJonhTinZam&ဆလိုင္းဂၽြန္သင္ဇမ္း SalaiSunCeu&ဆလိုင္းဆြန္က်ဲအို SalaiThuahAung&ဆလိုင္းသႊေအာင္ SalaiZamLain&ဆလိုင္းသွ်မ္းလ်န္ SandyMyintLwin&စႏၵီျမင့္လြင္ SangPi&စံပီး SaungOoHlaing&ေဆာင္းဦးလႈိင္ SawBweHmu&စာဘြဲ႔မွဴး SawKhuSe&ေစာခူဆဲ She&သွ်ီ ShinPhone&ရွင္ဖုန္း ShweHtoo&ေရႊထူး SinPauk&ဆင္ေပါက္ SiThuLwin&စည္သူလြင္ SithuWin&စည္သူဝင္း SiYan&စီယံ Snare SoeLwinLwin&စိုးလြင္လြင္ SoeNandarKyaw&စိုးနႏၵာေက်ာ္ SoePyaeThazin&စိုးျပည္႔သဇင္ SoeSandarTun&စိုးစႏၵာထြန္း SoTay&ဆိုေတး SungTinPar&ဆုန္သင္းပါရ္ SuNit&ဆူးနစ္ TekatawAyeMg&တကၠသိုလ္ေအးေမာင္ ThangPaa&ထန္းပါး TharDeeLu&သာဒီးလူ ThawZin&ေသာ္ဇင္ ThiriJ.MgMg&သီရိေဂ်ေမာင္ေမာင္ Thoon&သြန္း TinGyanSong&သႀကၤန္သီခ်င္း TintTintTun&တင္႔တင္႔ထြန္း TinZarMaw&တင္ဇာေမာ္ TunEaindraBo&ထြန္းအိျႏၵာဗို TunKham&ထြဏ္းခမ္ TunTun&ထြန္းထြန္း TuTu&တူးတူး V.NoTun&V.ႏိုထြန္း WaiLa&ေဝလ WaNa&ဝန WarsoMoeOo&ဝါဆိုမိုးဦး WineSuKhineThein&ဝိုင္းစုခိုင္သိန္း WyneLay&ဝိုင္းေလး Xbox XGALZ Y-Zet YadanaMai&ရတနာမိုင္ YadanaOo&ရတနာဦး YairYintAung&ရဲရင္႔ေအာင္ YanAung&ရန္ေအာင္ YarZarWinTint&ရာဇာဝင္းတင္႔ YeTwin&ရဲသြင္ YummyRookie YuZaNa&ယုဇန YY&၀ိုင္၀ိုင္း Z.DiLa&Z.ဒီးလာ ZamNu&ဇမ္ႏူး ZawOne&ေဇာ္ဝမ္း ZawPaing&ေဇာ္ပိုင္ ZawWinHtut&ေဇာ္ဝင္းထြဋ္ ZawWinShing&ေဇာ္ဝင္းရွိန္ ZayYe&ေဇရဲ ZwePyae&ဇြဲျပည္႔
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လင္းခန္႕ 23/9/2015

က်ေနာ္တို႕ အားလံုးဟာ က်ေနာ္တို႕ ဘ၀ေတြအတြက္ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့လူေတြ၊ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့ အရာေတြ၊ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့ ခံယူခ်က္ေတြအတြက္ မနက္ျဖန္မ်ားစြာကို ရင္ဆိုင္ ေလွ်ာက္လွမ္းေနၾကပါတယ္။ ဘ၀မွာ ေန႕စဥ္ျဖစ္ေနပ်က္ေနတာေတြ အမ်ားၾကီး ရွိေနေတာ့ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့ List ေတြကို ျပင္ဆင္ျပဳလုပ္ထားမွသာ က်ေနာ္တို႕ေတြ အားလံုးရဲ႕ အမွန္တကယ္ စြမ္းေဆာင္ႏိုင္ရည္ေတြက အခ်ိန္ႏွင့္အမွ် တိုးတက္ ေကာင္းမြန္လာမွာ ျဖစ္ပါတယ္။ ေအာင္ျမင္မႈဆိုတဲ့ ပန္းတိုင္ေတြကို ေက်ာ္လႊားျဖတ္သန္းဖို႕ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့ List ေတြကို မရွိမျဖစ္ ျပင္ဆင္ထားသင့္ပါတယ္။ ဒီေအာက္က List ၈ခု ကေတာ့ "သင့္ဘ၀ေအာင္ျမင္ဖို႕ ျပင္ဆင္ထားရမယ့္ List ၈ခု" ျဖစ္ပါတယ္။ 

၁။ List of Goals - ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ List

"သင့္ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ကို အေကာင္အထည္ေဖာ္ႏိုင္လို႕ ရရွိလိုက္တဲ့အရာက အဲ့ဒီ ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ကို အေကာင္အထည္ေဖာ္ႏိုင္ခဲ့လို႕ ေျပာင္းလဲသြားတဲ့ သင့္ေလာက္ အေရးမၾကီးပါဘူး။" —Zig Ziglar

ရည္မွန္းခ်က္နဲ႕ ပန္းတိုင္ဆိုတာ မိမိကိုယ္ကို အျမဲတမ္းတြန္းအားေပးေနတဲ့ အရာေတြပဲျဖစ္ပါတယ္။ မိမိဘ၀အတြက္ ေအာင္ျမင္မႈဆိုတဲ့ အရာတစ္ခုဆိုတာ ဘယ္လိုအရာမ်ိဳးျဖစ္သလဲဆိုတာအရင္ဆုံးသိရွိေအာင္ ျပဳလုပ္ရမယ္။ မိမိရဲ႕ ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ List ထဲမွာ မိမိဘ၀ျပီးျပည့္စံုဖို႕အတြက္ ေမွ်ာ္မွန္းထားတဲ့အရာေတြ အားလံုးပါ၀င္ေနရမယ္။ ေငြေၾကးအရဖူလႈံမႈလား၊ ကိုယ္ပိုင္အိမ္တစ္လံုးလား၊ ဒါမွမဟုတ္ မိသားစုတစ္ခု စတင္တည္ေထာင္ႏိုင္ဖို႕လား၊ ဒီလိုနဲ႕ပဲ စာရင္းေတြဟာ အျမဲတမ္း တိုးပြားေနမွာျဖစ္တယ္။ မိမိဘ၀ရင့္က်က္လာတာနဲ႕အမွ် ဒီျဖစ္ခ်င္တဲ့ ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ List ေျပာင္းလဲလာတတ္တယ္။ ဒီရည္မွန္းခ်က္ List ေတြထဲက တစ္ခုခုကို အေကာင္အထည္ ေဖာ္ျပီးရင္လည္း အျမဲတမ္း ပီတိျဖစ္ရမွာျဖစ္တယ္။ ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ List မရွိတဲ့ ဘ၀တစ္ခုဟာ အေမွာင္ထဲမွာ လမ္းေလွ်ာက္ေနတာနဲ႕တူပါတယ္။ အနည္းဆံုးေတာ့ မနက္မိုးလင္းလို႕ အိပ္ယာထတဲ့အခါ ေသခ်ာအာရံုစိုက္ႏိုင္မယ့္ ခိုင္လံုတဲ့ အေၾကာင္းျပခ်က္ တစ္ခု၊ အင္အားတစ္ခု က ဘ၀ေအာင္ျမင္ဖို႕အတြက္ ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ List ဆိုတာ မရွိမျဖစ္လိုအပ္ခ်က္တစ္ခုပါ

၂။ List of Tasks - လုပ္ေဆာင္စရာ List

"ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္မႈဆိုတာ လြယ္ကူတဲ့အရာတစ္ခုကို ျပဳလုပ္ႏိုင္ရံုနဲ႕ ရရွိတာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး။ ကိုယ့္ရဲ႕ လုပ္ေဆာင္ႏိုင္စြမ္းကို ျပသႏိုင္တဲ့ ခက္ခဲတဲ့ အရာတစ္ခုကို ျပဳလုပ္ႏိုင္မွသာ ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္မႈအစစ္တစ္ခုကို ရရွိႏိုင္မွာျဖစ္တယ္။" —Theodore Isaac Rubin

ဘယ္သူမဆို ေန႕စဥ္လုပ္ေဆာင္စရာ အသစ္ေတြဆိုတာ ေပၚလာစျမဲပါ။ ဘယ္လိုလုပ္ေဆာင္စရာပဲ ျဖစ္ျဖစ္ အဲ့ဒီ လုပ္ေဆာင္စရာတစ္ခုခုျပီးေျမာက္သြားရင္ မိမိတို႕ေတြဟာ ျပီးေျမာက္သြားတဲ့ အရသာကိုေတာ့ အျမဲခံစားရပါတယ္။ ေန႕စဥ္ဘ၀ေတြမွာလဲ ကိုယ္ဘာေတြ လုပ္ေဆာင္ရမလဲဆိုတဲ့ List ကို ျပဳစုထားသင့္ပါတယ္။ အခ်ိဳ႕ တစ္ေန႕တာထက္ပိုျပီး လိုအပ္မယ့္ ၾကီးမားတဲ့ လုပ္ေဆာင္စရာ ကိစၥတစ္ခုျဖစ္ခဲ့ရင္ အဲ့ဒီကိစၥကို ေန႕စဥ္ လုပ္ေဆာင္စရာ List မွာ အပိုင္းပိုင္းေတြခြဲျပီး ေနရာခ်ထားလို႕ရပါတယ္။ ဒါမွလဲ ဒီကိစၥကို ေန႕တိုင္း တစ္ပိုင္းျပီး တစ္ပိုင္း ပံုမွန္ေလး ေဆာင္ရြက္သြားႏိုင္မွာျဖစ္ျပီး သတ္မွတ္ထားတဲ့ အခ်ိန္အတြင္းမွာ ျပီးေျမာက္ႏိုင္မွာျဖစ္ပါတယ္။ ဒီလို လုပ္ေဆာင္စရာ List မွ မရွိဘူးဆိုရင္ လုပ္စရာကိစၥေတြဟာ ပံုေအာလာမွာျဖစ္ျပီး ေနာက္ဆံုးမွာေတာ့ အုတ္ခြက္ေတာင္းနင္း ျဖစ္လာရင္ ဘ၀ေအာင္ျမင္ဖို႕အတြက္ အတားအဆီးေတြ အမ်ားၾကီး ျဖစ္လာႏုိင္ပါတယ္။

၃။ List of Contacts - မိတ္ေဆြမ်ား List

"လူတစ္ေယာက္နဲ႕ သူငယ္ခ်င္းျဖစ္ဖို႕ဆိုတာ လြယ္ကူေပမယ့္ ထိုသူနဲ႕ စစ္မွန္တဲ့မိတ္ေဆြေတြ ျဖစ္လာဖို႕ ဆိုတာေတာ့ လြယ္ကူတဲ့အရာတစ္ခုမဟုတ္ပါဘူး။" —Aristotle

လူဆိုတာ ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ အရာရာကို တစ္ဦးထဲ စြမ္းေဆာင္ႏိုင္တာ မဟုတ္ပါဘူး။ စစ္မွန္တဲ့ မိတ္ေဆြ အေပါင္းအသင္းေတြဆိုတာ အလြယ္တကူရရွိဖုိ႕ မျဖစ္ႏိုင္သလို မွားယြင္းတဲ့ မိတ္ေဆြနဲ႕ ပူးေပါင္းမိလို႕ လုပ္ငန္းတစ္ခုကို ျပဳလုပ္ခဲ့မယ္ဆိုရင္ ရရွိလာမယ့္ ဒုကၡေတြက မေတြး၀ံ့စရာပါ။ မည္သူနဲ႕မဆို အလုပ္တစ္ခုကို ပူးေပါင္းလုပ္ကိုင္ေတာ့မယ္ဆိုရင္ မိမိဟာ ထိုသူနဲ႕ တူညီတဲ့ အျမင္တစ္ခု၊ ခံယူခ်က္တစ္ခု၊ ရည္မွန္းခ်က္တစ္ခု ရွိသလားဆိုတာ ဆန္းစစ္ပါ။ မိမိတို႕ ဘ၀ေတြမွာ အရမ္းကို အရည္အခ်င္းရွိျပီး အေထာက္အကူေပးႏုိင္မယ့္ လူေတြနဲ႕ ေတြ႕လာမယ္၊ ဒီလိုလူေတြဟာ အနာဂတ္ရဲ႕ တစ္ေထာင့္တစ္ေနရာမွာ အကူအညီေပးလာႏိုင္ပါတယ္။ မိမိရဲ႕ မိတ္ေဆြေတြ အကူအညီလိုအပ္ေနျပီဆိုရင္ ေဖးမကူဖို႕ ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ ၀န္မေလးပါနဲ႕။ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့ မိတ္ေဆြမ်ား ရဲ႕ List ကို တည္ေဆာက္ထားပါ။ ကိုယ္လိုအပ္လာမွ ဆက္သြယ္တာမ်ိဳးေတာ့ မျဖစ္ေစပါနဲ႕။ ဒီလူေတြ အားလံုးနဲ႕ ခိုင္မာတဲ့ ပံုမွန္ဆက္ဆံေရးေလး တည္ေဆာက္ထားျပီး လိုအပ္တဲ့ အကူအညီေတြ၊ ေဖးမမႈေတြ အျမဲျပဳလုပ္ေပးပါ။ လူဆိုတာ အသြားနဲ႕အလာ၊ အေပးနဲ႕အယူဆိုတာ အျမဲရွိပါတယ္။ စစ္မွန္တဲ့ မိတ္ေဆြေတြဆိုတာ ဘ၀တစ္သက္စာအတြက္ ေအာင္ျမင္မႈရရွိဖို႕ မရွိမျဖစ္လိုအပ္ခ်က္ တစ္ခုပါ။

၄။ List of Expenses - ကုန္က်စရိတ္မ်ား List

"အေမွ်ာ္အျမင္ရွိတဲ့ လူတစ္ေယာက္ဟာ ပိုက္ဆံကို ရင္ဘတ္ထဲမွာ မထားဘူး။ ေခါင္းထဲမွာပဲ ထားတယ္။" —Jonathan Swift

ဒီတစ္ခုကို မလိုအပ္ဘူးလို႕ ထင္ျခင္ထင္လိမ့္မယ္။ ဒါေပမယ့္ သူကလဲ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့အရာတစ္ခုျဖစ္ပါတယ္။ ေန႕စဥ္ လစဥ္ မိမိရဲ႕ ကုန္က်စရိတ္မ်ားရဲ႕ List ကို ေသခ်ာေလး ျပဳစုထားမယ္ဆိုရင္ မိမိတတ္ႏိုင္တဲ့ အတိုင္းအတာတစ္ခုကို သိရွိမွာျဖစ္တယ္။ ဒီကုန္က်စရိတ္ေတြ အားလံုးကို ေသခ်ာသိရွိထားရင္ ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ မ၀ယ္သင့္တဲ့အရာတစ္ခု၊ ေရရွည္မွာ မိမိအတြက္ မလိုအပ္တဲ့ အရာတစ္ခုကို ၀ယ္ဖို႕အတြက္ လုပ္ေဆာင္မိမွာ မဟုတ္ဘူး။ ဘာျဖစ္လို႕လဲဆိုေတာ့ မလိုအပ္ပဲ ၀ယ္မိခဲ့ရင္ လိုအပ္တဲ့အရာေတြ အတြက္ အခက္အခဲျဖစ္လာမယ္ဆိုတာ ၾကိဳသိေနလို႕ပဲျဖစ္တယ္။ မိမိရဲ႕ ၀င္ေငြနဲ႕ မိမိရဲ႕ကိုယ္ပိုင္ အသံုးစရိတ္ကို မိမိကုိယ္တိုင္ အခက္အခဲမရွိေအာင္ ေသေသခ်ာခ်ာ ကိုင္တြယ္ ေျဖရွင္းႏိုင္တာဟာ ရင့္က်က္တဲ့ လူတစ္ဦးရဲ႕ တာ၀န္ေက်ပြန္မႈပဲျဖစ္တယ္။ ေအာင္ျမင္မႈဆိုတာ ကိုယ့္မွာ ရွိတဲ့ အရာေတြကို စိတ္လြတ္ကိုယ္လြတ္ သံုးျဖဳန္းေနရံုနဲ႕ ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ ျဖစ္လာမွာ မဟုတ္ဘူး။

၅။ List of Self Improvements - ကိုယ္တုိင္ ေျပာင္းလဲတိုးတက္ဖို႕ လုပ္ေဆာင္ရန္ List

"သင္.. ေလ့လာသင္ယူျခင္း ရပ္တန္႕လိုက္တဲ့ မိနစ္မွာ.. သင့္ဘ၀ ေသဆံုးသြားျပီ"
—Jack Nicholson

ဘ၀မွာ စဥ္ဆက္မျပတ္ တိုးတက္ေျပာင္းလဲဖို႕အတြက္ အျမဲ ေလ့လာသင္ယူေနရမွာ ျဖစ္တယ္။ ေအာင္ျမင္ဖို႕အတြက္ဆိုရင္ လူဆိုတာ တစ္ပါးသူေတြရဲ႕ အျမင္ေတြကို လက္ခံႏုိင္ရပါမယ္။ အျမင္ပြင့္လင္းရပါမယ္။ ငါကသာ အျမဲမွန္ပါတယ္၊ ငါဘယ္ေတာ့မွ မမွားပါဘူးဆိုရင္ သင္လံုး၀မွားယြင္းသြားပါလိမ့္မယ္။ လူဆိုတာ အမွားနဲ႕ မကင္းႏုိင္တဲ့ သတၱ၀ါေတြပါ။ အမွားျပဳမိတာက အေရးမၾကီးေပမယ့္ အမွားကို သိရဲ႕နဲ႕ အမွန္မျပင္ႏိုင္တာက ပိုျပီးေတာ့ ၾကီးေလးတဲ့ ျပႆနာပါ။ မိမိဘ၀ ပိုျပီး သာယာလွပေအာင္ ဘာေတြ လုပ္မလဲ၊ ဘာေတြ ေျပာင္းလဲမလဲ၊ အတိတ္က သင္ယူခဲ့တဲ့ ဘ၀သင္ခန္းစာေတြကို ဘယ္လိုအသံုးခ်ျပီး အနာဂတ္မွာ ေအာင္ျမင္ေအာင္ ဖန္တီးမလဲ၊ ဒါေတြကို အျမဲလုပ္ေဆာင္ေနမွသာ ဘ၀မွာ ေအာင္ျမင္ႏိုင္မွာျဖစ္တယ္။

၆။ List of Creative Ideas - ဆန္းသစ္တဲ့အိုင္ဒီယာမ်ား List

"ရွိေနျပီးသား လမ္းေၾကာင္းတစ္ခုကို ေလွ်ာက္လွမ္းရတာထက္ မရွိေသးတဲ့လမ္းကို ေဖာက္ျပီး လမ္းေၾကာင္းတစ္ခုဖန္တီးရတာကပိုျပီး အရသာရွိတယ္။" —Waldo Emerson

သမိုင္းေၾကာင္းတစ္ေလွ်ာက္ ကမာၻၾကီးကို ေျပာင္းလဲပစ္ခဲ့တဲ့ လူေတြရွိတယ္။ ဒီလိုလူေတြဟာ ဘယ္ေတာ့အခါကမွ မိမိဘ၀ေတြမွာ ပံုမွန္ျဖစ္ေနတာကို ေက်နပ္ေနတဲ့ လူေတြ တစ္ဦးတစ္ေယာက္မွ မပါဘူး။ သူတို႕ေတြဟာ မတူညီတဲ့ အေတြးအေခၚေတြ၊ ဆန္းသစ္တဲ့ အိုင္ဒီယာေတြ အျမဲရွိေနခဲ့တာ ျဖစ္တယ္။ ေသခ်ာတာတစ္ခုကေတာ့ လူအမ်ားစုက သင့္ရဲ႕ ဆန္းသစ္တဲ့ အိုင္ဒီယာကို အေလးထား သေဘာတူမွာမဟုတ္ဘူး။ ဒါေပမယ့္ စိတ္ဓာတ္မက်ပါနဲ႕။ ဒီလိုပဲ ေအာင္ျမင္လာတဲ့ လူေတြဟာ တစ္ခါတစ္ေလ အရာရာကို အံတုျပီး မိမိရဲ႕ ယံုၾကည္ခ်က္သည္သာ မွန္ကန္ေၾကာင္း သက္ေသျပခဲ့ၾကတယ္။

၇။ List of Plans - ၾကိဳတင္ျပင္ဆင္မႈမ်ား List

"အနာဂတ္က ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ မေသခ်ာပါဘူး၊ ဒါေပမယ့္ အဆံုးတစ္ခုကေတာ့ အျမဲတမ္း နီးကပ္ေနပါတယ္။" ―Jim Morrison

အျမဲတမ္းၾကားဖူးမွာပါ.. "မနက္ျဖန္ဆိုတာ မေသခ်ာပါ.. ဒီေန႕အတြက္ အသက္ရွင္ပါ.. အနာဂတ္ဆိုတာ မေရရာတဲ့အရာပါ.." ဘယ္လိုေျပာေျပာ လူတိုင္းက အစီအစဥ္အမ်ိဳးမ်ိဳးကို ၾကိဳတင္ျပင္ဆင္ၾကရပါတယ္။ အနာဂတ္အတြက္ ၾကိဳတင္ျပင္ဆင္မႈမ်ားရဲ႕ List ရွိမွသာ ဘယ္အရာကို ဘယ္လိုျဖစ္ေျမာက္ေအာင္ လုပ္ရမလဲဆိုတာ သိႏိုင္မွာျဖစ္ပါတယ္။ ေနာက္ျပီး ၾကိဳတင္ျပင္ဆင္မႈက တကယ္လက္ေတြ႕ အေကာင္အထည္ေဖာ္တဲ့အခါ ဘယ္လိုအခက္အခဲေတြ ရွိလာႏိုင္မလဲ ဆိုတာကိုပါ ထည့္သြင္းစဥ္းစား ထားရပါမယ္။ အဲ့ဒီ အခက္အခဲေတြ ျဖစ္လာခဲ့ရင္ေရာ ဘယ္လို ေျဖရွင္းျပီး ျဖစ္ေျမာက္ေအာင္ လုပ္မလဲဆိုတာပါ ျပင္ဆင္ထားရပါမယ္။ ဒါမွသာ ေအာင္ျမင္မႈပန္းတိုင္ကို ခ်ီတက္ႏိုင္မွာျဖစ္ပါတယ္။

၈။ Bucket List - မေသခင္လုပ္စရာမ်ား List

"အုတ္ဂူထဲေရာက္သြားသည့္တုိင္ေအာင္ ေျပာခ်င္ရဲ႕နဲ႕ မေျပာလိုက္ရတဲ့ စကားေတြ.. လုပ္ခ်င္ရဲ႕နဲ႕ မလုပ္ခ်င္တဲ့အရာေတြ အမ်ားၾကီးရွိေနခဲ့ရင္.. ေလာကၾကီးက တကယ္ ႏွေျမာဖို႕ ေကာင္းပါတယ္" —Harriet Beecher Stowe

တကယ္ေတာ့ ဘ၀ဆိုတာ ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္စြာ ျဖတ္သန္းဖို႕ အရမ္းအေရးၾကီးပါတယ္။ ဘ၀ရဲ႕ ေနာက္ဆံုး အခ်ိန္ေတြက်မွ ကိုယ္လုပ္ႏိုင္ခဲ့တုန္း လုပ္ခ်င္တာေတြ မလုပ္ခဲ့ရလို႕ ေနာင္တေတြ ရေနရင္ ဘယ္လိုလုပ္မလဲ? ဘ၀မွာ ေအာင္ျမင္ေအာင္ ၾကိဳးစားေနၾကတယ္ ဆိုတာလည္း ေသခ်ာစဥ္းစားၾကည့္ရင္ ကိုယ္လုပ္ခ်င္တာေတြ လုပ္ရဖို႕အတြက္ မဟုတ္ဘူးလား? ဒါေၾကာင့္ ကုိယ္မေသခင္အခ်ိန္အတြင္း.. ကိုယ့္ဘ၀မွာ ဘာေတြ ျဖစ္ခ်င္တာလဲ? ဘာေတြ လုပ္ခ်င္တာလဲ? ဒီ List ေလးေတာ့ ရွိထားသင့္ပါတယ္။ ဒါမွပဲ ေရွ႕မွာရွိေနတဲ့ မနက္ျဖန္မ်ားစြာအတြက္ အားအင္သစ္ေတြ ေန႕တိုင္း ရရွိေနမွာပါ။

အားလံုးပဲ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့ List ေတြကို ျပင္ဆင္ျပီး ေအာင္ျမင္ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္တဲ့ ဘ၀ေတြကို ဖန္တီး တည္ေဆာက္ႏုိင္ၾကပါေစ။

လင္းခန္႕
EMG Marketing Group
Digital Social Media Team

*** 8 Lists to Keep If You Want to Be Successful ***

The human mind is truly incredible, and we should all strive towards creating a tenacious memory we can rely on. Many lucrative professions or hobbies require such a trait—actors, musicians, artists and entertainers in general do countless drills, just so the required information can be embedded in the memory with certainty. Clearly numerous doors that lead to a successful future are unlocked if one has a great memory. Although beneficial, it is not an essential ingredient within the success formula—what you lack in memory can always be compensated with diligence.

Keeping track of crucial elements in your life through list-making is still an unrivaled tactic for counterbalancing feeble recollection. By utilizing constant reminders, we can have significantly greater organization, we won’t be under the impression we have forgotten something, and we will have a clear insight into which task has a stamp of immediacy attached to it.

1. List of Goals

“What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.” —Zig Ziglar

Goals and ambition is what drives us and motivates us, but we need to ask ourselves what is it that we want in order to feel truly accomplished. Your list of goals should consists of all the items that you deem are necessary to truly respect yourself. It can be financial stability, a place you can call your own, starting your family, being independent, etc. People have different criteria when it comes to goals, and this list in particular is ever-growing; it changes as you mature, but it always feels great when you cross something out of it. Without such a list, you lose direction of where your life is heading, and we all need some inner guidance to focus on—a good reason to get up in the morning.

2. List of Tasks

“Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction that comes after the achievement of a difficult task that demanded our best.” —Theodore Isaac Rubin

Tasks are actually milestones on the road to goal completion, and these lists have a tendency to become quite copious. New tasks emerge on a daily basis, regardless of whether you are an employee, a student, or a freelancer. Despite the fact that they are arduous, we always have some sense of achievement once the task is complete, or when a certain problem is solved. By avoiding to make such lists and lists of our daily tasks, they’ll simply pile up and eventually become a hindrance. In the event you have larger tasks that need more than a day, a week or a month before they can be completed, then break those tasks into smaller daily assignments, and put them on the list as well. As long as you monitor larger tasks while completing minor daily milestones, you will have a greater grip on progression and continuous source of motivation. List and sticky notes are actually quite potent tools for increase in productivity, especially while we are working from home.

3. List of Contacts

“Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow ripening fruit.” —Aristotle

It would be delusional to assume you can make it all on your own; however, at the same time, a flawed partnership can result in disastrous outcome as well. It is extremely difficult to find compatible allies and contacts, since friends and family—in other words, people close to you—may not be the best choice for a business partner. If you want to enter into a partnership with someone, make sure the person shares the same vision. Tread lightly and try to ascertain your potential partner’s level of reliability. Throughout life, we come across skillful, capable and talented people, whose competence might be needed in the future, depending on your line of work of course. Do not be hesitant to offer a helping hand when they are in need, since you can gain a valuable contact. The point being: make a special list of all important contacts, like reliable programmers, handymen, lawyers, etc. Remember not to only reach out when you are in need. You need to maintain a healthy and natural relationship and be there for those people if they require your assistance. Truth be told, it can be arduous to forge strong friendship bonds, but having important acquaintances and becoming an important acquaintance is very much possible. Without such a list, you are leaving yourself vulnerable to possible future complications; moreover, make sure this list is well-kept since once you lose a contact like this one, it can be somewhat troublesome to recover such data. Just be sure you have recovery data tools at your disposal to mitigate the damage if something were to happen to your phone.

4. List of Expenses

“A wise person should have money in their head, but not in their heart.” —Jonathan Swift

This may be a quite mundane piece of advice, yet it is very often neglected. As we all know, there are two types of expenses: those that are necessary, (bills, taxes, food) and those expenditures used for indulging some personal cravings. There is a degree of restraint that the majority of us lack in order to approach the matter with a satisfying level of prudence. To say it bluntly, we treat our wants like our needs, and necessities and primary obligations are pushed in the background. Of course, this may sound a bit exaggerated, but the truth is the pressure of a consumer’s culture eventually becomes overwhelming, resulting in a purchase we shouldn’t be able to afford at the time. This kind of behavior can be avoided by utilizing lists, and turning them into an omnipresent reminder of what is truly important. By making lists of all the monthly expenses we are obligated to pay, we’ll have a clear overview with how much resources are there at our disposal. On the other hand, without this list filled with meticulous calculations, we are prone to believing that we have more freedom to engage in a shopping spree, ultimately causing our bills to pile up; thus, we end up a step closer to a financial suicide. Handling finances properly, or the fact that we prioritize the costs of living, is a responsibility that signifies maturity. Success is commonly measured by the amount of wealth and without adequate spending tactics, you prevent its accumulation.

5. List of Self Improvements

“The minute that you’re not learning I believe you’re dead.” —Jack Nicholson

Reasonable to assume this one is unavoidable, and it always deserves to be mentioned. It is safe to assume we are all aware of our shortcomings; if not all of them at least some of them. Think about yourself, make a list of all the things you would like to improve or change, then consider how to implement those changes. Despite the fact that those who are close to you do not pressure you into changing or improving, you should always make constant endeavours to do so, for your own sake.

6. List of Creative Ideas

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” —Waldo Emerson

Throughout history, people who made the most significant impact on the world were those with a revolutionary way of thinking, those who dared to challenge the established order and alter the status quo. For an idea to be classified as creative, it needs to be new, it needs to make sense, and it needs to have some sort of use. For example, creating something to help the disabled communicate online, or simply type—that way, people who have lost their limbs could blog or become creative writers, and show the world a piece of their mind. Thus a keyboard in a form of braces could enable them to type using their tongue; however I am not an engineer, so I do not know whether something like this is possible. Whenever a new idea comes to your mind write it down, then browse the web to see if you indeed have stumbled upon something ground-breaking. Once your list has grown, then you need to start pondering on the subject to see whether it holds closer scrutiny. Ask for a second opinion and see what you would need to realize your idea. In a majority of cases, this is how successful people are created. Rest assured that it is very possible that people won’t be impressed with your creativity as much as you are, but do not allow yourself to be discouraged—after all, perseverance has a crucial role in a career as well. Monitoring your thoughts incites productive thinking and hones your focus; it keeps our mind occupied. Letting your good ideas slide is only a wasted potential that will put your progress in a halt.

7. List of Plans

“The future is uncertain but the end is always near.” ―Jim Morrison

We have all heard statements like “Tomorrow is a mystery,” “Live for today,” and “You can’t affect the future.” Personally, I heavily disagree with such a point of view. Although I do agree that, in particular circumstances, making plans for the future is doing Sisyphus work, not planning it at all seems utterly mortifying. I also believe that everyone makes some sort of plan; the problem is this fear of uncertainty that thwarts our will to act. To make your resolve more adamant, compile a list of your future plans, see what you need in order to make them come true. This one is very similar to the first list—the one with goals; the difference is, it does not have to involve your personal future. Rather, it is list of upcoming important events, important changes in law, or upcoming trends, useful software, etc. It will keep you well-informed and prepared, since staying updated and relevant are essential virtues for lucrative businessmen. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction, meaning there is nothing you can do without consequences. Every attempt to be more successful usually has a set of barriers attached to it, or risks. Even though risks are inevitable, being prepared for the aftermath is always a good and necessary thing. When you plan your business incentives, or when you plan to invest in something, make sure you compose a thorough pros and cons list, as well as a list of possible negative scenarios. In the event that positive aspects outweigh the negative ones, you can be more encouraged to proceed further.

8. Bucket List

“The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and for deeds left undone.” —Harriet Beecher Stowe

Finally, learn to live for the sake of experiencing what life has to offer. It is invigorating, to say the least, and it keeps your regrets at minimum. One of the reasons why we want to be successful is to actually fulfil our dreams or complete our bucket list, to look back on our life during old age with a warm smile rather than a frown. Feel free to put even the impossible things on your bucket list, and find the next best thing using your creativity. Whenever you reach a rough patch in your life, take a look at you bucket list and see what is the most plausible thing to do in order to restore your will power and keep going.

[REFERENCE & CREDITS]
Article Translated & Adjusted By,
LINN KHANT
Digital Social Media Team
EMG Marketing Group
Reference: Lifehack

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